Stephanıe Loftus
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The Five Faces of Self-Sabotage.

The five quiet ways we get in our own way. Each one given a proper name, and traced back to what it’s really been trying to protect. A short, honest read for people doing the work that doesn’t show up in planners or pep talks.

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What’s inside

Four things you’ll take from it.

01
Five patterns, gently named

The five faces self-sabotage tends to wear, each given a proper name so you can finally recognise it in yourself.

02
What each one protects

Why you do it, traced back to the earlier version of you it’s quietly been trying to keep safe.

03
One small thing to notice

For each pattern, a single moment to watch for in real life. Seeing it is where the work actually starts.

04
Words for what you couldn’t name

Honest language that makes the invisible visible, without diagnosis, jargon or pressure.

this is for you if
  • You’ve read the self-help books and still feel pulled back by something you can’t quite name.
  • You don’t want another five-step framework, you want real words for what’s going on.
  • You’re tired of motivational fluff and high-vibe scripts that don’t actually meet you where you are.
  • You’d rather understand one true thing about yourself than try to fix your whole life in thirty days.
this isn’t for you if
  • You’re after quick fixes, hacks, or productivity gospel.
  • You want manifestation, high-vibe energy or hustle culture.
  • You’re looking for a clinical diagnosis, as this is honest language for noticing, not a stand-in for therapy.
  • A short, reflective read feels like more than you’re after right now.
From the ebook
“You’re not undoing yourself. You’re quietly protecting an earlier version of you who never got to feel safe wanting this.”
— From “The Five Faces of Self-Sabotage

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