Patterns· 14 min
What Self-Sabotaging Actually Means (And the 5 Faces You Won’t Recognise)
You keep self-sabotaging and the advice never fits. That’s because self-sabotage wears five faces. Here’s how to find yours.
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Honest, slow writing on the patterns that keep us stuck, and what it actually takes to gently move.

You keep self-sabotaging and the advice never fits. That’s because self-sabotage wears five faces. Here’s how to find yours.

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